Thread: I just want to forget! help! :'(?

the past 3 yrs have been hell for me. LITERALLY. i was in a horrible relationship. and things kept getting worse.... he wound up having a baby with another girl...conceived it when we were still together.my heart really hurts and nothing i do helps at all. i just wanna forget.... is there anyway that i could lose the last 3 yrs of my memory? at the hospital i mean, like maybe a shot or surgery. SOMETHING! i just wanna forget and move on
i cant afford therapy, and i dont want him back but it still really hurts cuz im in love with him. i need some type of professional help. :'(
i havent eaten or slept at all in 3 days... tomorrow will be 4 days.... im trying so hard to keep my self busy and move on but its not working. im seriously suicidal and if i dont get help soon ima kill myself. i dont want anyones sympathy i just want help :'( i highly doubt ANYTHING will help. the only thing that will help is memory loss

wow! efff that dude! u don't need that loser anyway. i know how hard it is to get over something like that, ya just gotta keep your head held up high and keep yourself busy, it will get better!

Amnesia?

I'm sorry to hear that. I recently got out of a bad relationship too where I was suicidal and abused. I wanted to forget but honestly I found some good that the situation brought through therapy. Seek therapy and it will help. Good luck and know you are better off without that guy.

To be honest, we don't always know where some of the hard times come from that invade our lives. I doubt if Job realized in the midst of his suffering that God and Satan were engaged in a massive spiritual battle for his soul (see Job 1:6-12).Sometimes it's clear, however; in my own ministry, for example, I've sometimes faced difficulties that could only have come from Satan, because they were clearly intended to stop the preaching of the Gospel. I've faced other situations, however, that were clearly from God, because they led us into new and unexpected paths for the preaching of the Gospel. Sometimes, however, the origin of a particular problem was unclear.The real issue is this, however: When hard times come into our lives, how should we react? Should we panic, or get depressed, or spend time blaming ourselves or others? No. Instead, we should respond in faith, praying for God's will to be done, and for Him to help us overcome all evil for Christ's glory. Every difficulty is an opportunity for God to demonstrate His love and power.But hard times also can strengthen us as we rely on God, no matter where they came from. Ask God to make this true in your life. The Bible says, "We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope" (Romans 5:3-4).

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First of all, I don't think any hospital can legally make you lose any of your memory. Nor would it be a smart idea to try and find a method to do so.

I understand how you feel. That your world is ripped apart and you feel helpless and hopeless, broken and betrayed. But you will get over this. Time heals all wounds, and the memory will slowly fade on it's own, if you keep trying to focus your attention away from the negative memory of what he did. I know that is a poor cliche, but it has truth behind it. Try and stay away from him. Try and do activities you enjoy. Hang out with friends, watch a movie, do a hobby you're interested in, do something that makes you happy. And remember, he's not the only one out there. There are other, better guys, who WILL treat you right, the way you deserve to be treated.

It is possible to move on. Just try to remember that it's not your fault that he did what he did. He shouldn't have cheated on you. One day, you will meet a guy who loves you for who you are and he will be faithful to you. Just try to keep preoccupied and know it will get better.

You are confusing life with the plots of bad Hollywood movies - no - memories cannot be surgically removed. The only thing that comes close is the use of Electro-convulsive Therapy (ECT) - sometimes referred to as Electro-Shock Therapy, used in the treatment of depressive disorders. Old forms of the treatment often resulted in some memory loss, but this wasn't consistent or predictable. Lobotomies also resulted in memory loss, as well as a loss of intellectual abilities - not a reasonable trade off one might argue.

Basically, the fact is that everyone goes through "life" - breakups - and stuff like that - move on. If the jerk you were with thought so little of you that he cheated on you while you were together you should celebrate the fact that you're no longer with him - you deserve better - don't you? Do you really want to be with a loser who can't keep it in his pants long enough to make it home to his girlfriend? Seriously, if he's that obsessed with getting laid, he's a single-minded prick - and you need someone who is more concerned with your well being than where he's going to be able to get a piece of ass.

What I'm trying to say is this: self-respect is important - being out of this horrible relationship (your words) means that you should take some time to take stock of the situation. Be strong - be discriminating when it comes to the next relationship you enter (discriminating in the sense that you don't just jump into a relationship because someone is cute - look for someone's character - are they trustworthy? Will they cheat on you? When they talk to you do they look at YOU or at others - or at another part of your anatomy ... they should be looking in your eyes - not somewhere else). Have respect for yourself - and learn from the past - don't forget it - if you do you'll be doomed to repeat the mistakes you may have made - like hooking up with a guy who is only interested in getting his rocks off rather than loving you.