Thread: Is there a way to fix this problem?

Im 16. A girl. Ok so im basically a "ugly" girl. I dont like to believe it. I dont let things like that get to me. But recently it is. Im a junior in high school i want guys to talk to me, i want to have more friends (girls and guys)
So i am a petite girl, flat butt, flat chest. My only curve is my hips i think. I go to the gym twice a week- i go on the treadmill to get rid of fat (mostly love handles) and to keep my petite shape. Then i workout with machines that work the arms and legs.
Height- I am 5"3


Basically what i am asking is: what am i suppose to do?
- what can i do to unflatten my small butt?
-what can i do to build more confidence

And this is not just to get guys. Thats not my goal. My real goal is to gain more confidence in myself bu improving my body. Having a good body improves your srlf esteem and thats something i really need. I dont want to change my body for other people but myself.

Im not sure how to get the body shape you want.

But to build better confidence talk to more people. Dont wait for people to talk to you.
Talk to as much people as you can.
Be yourself nothing worse than when someones trying to talk to you and your not acting like yourself.
But he more people you talk to the more confidnce you will build it also helps dramatiacally if you do not care what other people think about you are you so why should you have to change to impress anyone?

There are butt excercises to get a better butt. Sometimes it is genes too, but I try that. Google it.

You dont sound ugly to me, unless your personality makes you less attractive. You should start running! I'm a runner and I know girls that never liked their thin, flat, non-curvy bodies until they started running. Now they have confidence like crazy because their bodies are sculpted and gorgeous. They still dont have butts or boobs but theyre sexy and feminine without them!
Just accept what youve been given, when youre 30 or 40 you look around and see all the curvy people that you used to envy -theyll be gross and fat and youll be adorable.
You never have to get fast, just get out and enjoy the miles, confidence will follow